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Discussing Care Options With Your Loved One

Making a decision about extended care doesn’t have to be stressful or difficult. The American Health Care Association suggests a proactive approach can help you and your loved one arrive at a mutual decision that is the best solution.

Once your loved one shows signs of needing assistance, you should begin discussing his or her specific needs and care options. The American Health Care Association offers advice and information on how to make this conversation easier for you and your loved one.

Below is a summary of the tips and techniques offered on The American Health Care Association’s website:

• Develop as much information as possible about care options, so you can be ready to answer your loved one's questions and inspire confidence.
• Ask your loved one for permission to discuss his or her need for care.
• Choose a comfortable time and place for the discussion.
• Stay positive as you offer information, and be prepared for objections and the need for repeated discussions.
• Listen to your loved one, learn about his or her concerns, ideas, and hopes, and acknowledge his or her right to be involved in decision-making.
• Include others who may be helpful in their knowledge of options and your loved one's needs.